Lmao. Who is the chick that voted " likes having sidechicks". Lol
Ok I just did this pole because I hear a lot of friends complaining about cheaters, guys being secretive with phones and etc. I was wondering if my guy is rare. He is faithful and has no passwords on anything. Doesn't hide his phone or anything from me. He simply adores me. I hear so many horror stories just wanted to know how many good guys are out there.
It really is a matter of adverse selection. Most men are faithful and therefore not chasing skirts when in relationship. When single they're less likely to go after every hot chick trying to get laid. Some men are not faithful and are looking for more fun. When a single attractive woman is looking for a man she'll be approached by disproportionatelly more players because they're a lot more active than the average guy. Add to that the complete lack of parental guidance for a boy as to how a decent man should act and treat a woman and the odds are somewhat against the girl. Unfortunately that is also becoming true for men looking for a faithful girl. I guess the best filter for players is to make them wait. As in a couple of months. They are in general impatient. Only a guy who actually have feelings for the girl will wait for her and then stick with her.
I've never cheated on anybody. You said women are better at cheating and hiding it than men though, and I've had some women tell me they were single, have sex with me, then later reveal that they had boyfriends and they never found out, so that's probably true. Men and women are as bad as each other.
I know that there are some guys out there that being faithful is not something that comes easy to them.. those ones do not like any thing that may to them be viewed as a commitment, and if one was to get a women pregnant.. well instant single mother and watch how fast the guy runs.. it is sad to know these types are out there.. but being unfaithful could have been even going on even back in the stone age and is present still to this day.. glad I am not one of those kinds of guys.
I am, always have been and always will be completely faithful to my partners I will not however get rid of me female friends as I value my friendship with both men and women just as much as I value my relationship with my partner.
I can honestly say i dont have any physical or emotional connections with any other Woman, only with My Girlfriend and thats easy for me because when someone means as much to you as she does to me things like being faithful and commited come naturally and easy because without her you see and know, no you
I made the mistake of getting married in my early 20s, and could not stay faithful. I am in my 30s, and have met the woman of my dreams. I know she is the one, because I don't see myself ever straying from her. So, when U meet the ONE, I think most people will remain truly faithful.
I'm one of them. Yes, I'm attracted to strangers, it's what made me realize I was straight when I 1st hit puberty. But do I wanna fuck them? No. I was taught that sex was a very serious and discrete thing for only 2 partners who truly love each other to share. And I have always believed it, I'm following it, and waiting for the right person. Seeing the majority of the world break this rule and have sex just for the heck of it just seems awkward... last time I checked that was called being a slut/prostitute or just an unclassy man who can't control his hormones. No offense to people who do have sex for the heck of it with multiple partners, but seeing it as the norm feels awkward, and defying all I was taught about sex.
You should look up Helen Fisher, she is a researcher who specializes in Love, Sex, Relationships, Cheating etc... She has at least 1 TedTalk and a bunch of other content on YouTube and other places on the net.
Most GOOD men are faithful simply because men don't require as much as women do. So as long as you spend time with him and make sure he's pleased sexually, I don't see why he would even need to cheat. Most men are very simple.