every time I get into a relationship (I've only had 2 serious relationships) or want to date a guy I find something about them that I don't like & can't accept, ever. I linger onto things and I feel like im never going to be happy with someone. What bothers you the most in your relationship?
Well 100% perfect relationship is not possible, because 100% compatibility is not possible as well, however yes your relationship can be near perfect if there is high compatibility say above 80% but less than 100%. In that case you will be on a common ground and so things will be smooth and there is will be almost no fights, no dislikes and so on.
Yes, that's true everyone will have some flaws, some imperfections. Hence there is nothing wrong if you have high standards and there is nothing wrong if you want a person who will give you high compatibility, however you need to keep some room for error, say at least 10-15%.
Well, I have never been in a relationship , but I just wanted to give my opinion
There's a line where having standards is fine and all, but you have to stop and think how realistic they really are. If you're completely sure you're looking for all the right things FOR you, then it's just a matter of patience. Maybe the right guy hasn't come yet, it may happen or not.