I am 20 years old and it just seems like guys only want the girls who are "easy" to get in bed and thats just not me. I want to have sex, but when I feel like the time is right and not just with a random person. I want to have sex a couple months into a relationship when I feel comfortable with that perosn and he respects me. I've been burned by all of the guys that have showed interest in me because they wanted to sleep with me so early. I am scared that I will be like 25 and never have had sex and that scares me because I dont want to wait til marriage or anything like that. I dont want a guy to think that is weird because in your ate 20s I would conisder that to be weird. I am a very confident girl and im really outgoing, so it doesn't usually bother me, but its just because a lot of people expect you to already be experienced in that area and i just am not. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
There are men out there asking that same exact question, wanting exactly what you want. Wait until you find the right one.
If it's any consolation, I respected my girlfriend at the time more because she was a virgin. I have nothing against women who aren't. However, wanting to wait for the right person speaks volumes to your character.2
Most Helpful Girl
Don't worry about it. Wait until you find someone and if they're the right person, they won't care.
I was a virgin until 20, and if I hadn't met my boyfriend, I probably still would be a virgin.
there's nothing wrong with it. There are also more virgins in college than you think.1