Smoking is unappealing for me, not only the act itself, but the smell that comes from it. I find it so disgusting that I would be making a big effort to stand near her after she smoked... and we all know that the smell lasts quite a bit on their hands.. clothes.. omg mouth!!! I would definitely encourage her to stop... But I think it would never even start in the first place.. that would only happen if she started smoking after we started the relationship.
I know you said "Guys" but I feel a need to comment on this too since this IS something I have considered.
Generally, I hate smokers. . . I'm surrounded by them everyday and I just don't need all that in my life.
Now, say there's this guy you're talking about who is handsome, kind, and he treats me right. Yeah he's amazing, but even then I'd put aside all that to really analyze where he's at in terms of his "smoking habit." If he is going out to smoke every date we're on almost every minute or if he is wasting his money away to get some cigarettes or whatever then personally, I don't think he's worth my time.
But, if he can moderate his smoking and try to be considerate of my feelings to try and limit it then sure I'd live with it. Who knows? Maybe I could even stir this guy in the right direction and get him off his addiction~ 😁😁😀😊💗
Smoking is a massive deal breaker. If she does not care about her health, that would worry me. Not only that but I don't understand the appeal to start smoking either, so personally no. But l, if she is serious about quitting.
And as other users mentioned, the smell etc. Is a massive deal breaker
I very occasionally smoke a cigar. If she's a heavy smoker that is a no go. Thousands of great girls out there, I'll find one that doesn't smoke or occasionally smokes like me. Health matters to me and I don't want to have to smoke just so kissing her isn't repulsive.
Probably not. Nothing against people that smoke, you should do whatever you want. But i just hate the smell and that isn't something you can get rid of by taking a shower or something. I would try and get over it but if i kiss her and i get a face full of that smell it will break the mood for me.
I pretty well make sure that people know I hate smoking. If I do not know the girl, I wouldn't date her at all. If I knew her a little bit and there was something between us, I would make sure she stopped or itd be over quickly
Nope for me it kinda turn off.. I stay getting breathing problems when someone smokes because of the smoke... But if she smokes very occasionally or few times I would date her... But not if she does 1 pack everyday
Most won't, and others will think they can change her ways. At the end of the day it's a disgusting habit she should have never picked up in the first place, and it's her own fault if guys reject her for it because she had a choice to not do it, but she picked her poison.
I smoke one-two cigarretes per day in secret because my boyfriend hates it. If he finds out one day I don''t think he would just break up with me, that's so stupid. Yeah he would get into a big argue with me, like if he was my father and I a fifteen year old girl, telling me how bad smoking is... I know it's bad and disgusting, but it's better one cig per day then a whole 20 box like I used to smoke in the past...
If the girl was attractive they wouldn't give a shit.