I'm 18 and never had a boyfriend because I didn't found the right person and I don't like relationships with no depth. So, there is a guy who gave the signals he likes me, he always texts me and picks me up, but I don't feel attracted to him. He's a great guy, though! The thing is that I'm tired of rejecting, we are also in the same group of friends and I already friend-zoned some guys we both know. I don't want to be that shallow girl who rejects everyone, but also I don't want to lie and give them false hopes. I'm sure I don't have a problem because I do find guys attractive, but usually they are unavailable... Should I give him a chance to see if something will grow later?
Most Helpful Guy
Hmmm, tough call. You are picky and you know what you want. Nothing wrong with that, but you do need to realize that you will have far less choices and opportunities. Being attracted is something that happens almost at first site and is one of the driving forces that keeps a relationship going. If you are not attracted to him, then this is one the things that sparks temptation to cheat with someone else that you are attracted to. I know what you mean by rejecting another possible partner, but I think you should follow your heart and wait for someone you are more into. This guy sounds like a 70% match and I think you should wait out for what you want.2
Most Helpful Girl
Do not waste your time with someone you're not attracted to.0