A female coworker and I have become very close and get along great. Though unfortunately she is married and has kids. She is attractive and I would definitely consider dating her if she were single, though I would never approach her in that way due to her being married, only as friends.
However I feel it is wrong to even suggest this to a married woman. We chat sometimes online too, though as friends. Am I crossing a boundary to ask if she would like to hang out sometime?
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Honestly, I think that as you have admitted to us that you are attracted to her you should make sure you avoid social situations with her. I know you say you wouldn't make a move on her but sometimes, in the moment, that resolve crumbles. Also, she may feel the same about you and that would just make it worse.0