Cuddle with her, but don't let your hands roam towards her privates and thighs. Also, just talk to her and avoid anything sexual. Compliment her without saying "You look sexy" or "You look good." Say she looks gorgeous, beautiful, lovely or perfect. Hold her hand tightly or give her those tight hugs that seems to keep herself from falling apart. Do what makes her smile and blush warmly at you. Know the right settings between sexual intimacy and physical intimacy (e. g hold handing and cuddling). Also, don't assume she's too emotional because she's a girl and try to see things from her perspective and don't let your manly pride/ego get in the way. Treat her as if she was your to be wife. Don't treat her as just another girl you'll date and move one.
Long warm hugs, eye contact, calling her beautiful instead of hot, talking about things u both care about, don't bring up anything sexual just get to know her as a human being... learn what she loves, what she hates...
set boundaries, avoid anything sexual. Avoid thigh touches and get more in tune with her opinion and thoughts on hobbies, family things etc. keep it pg 13
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