I'm 26 and never had a girlfriend and never been on a date. I want a girlfriend, but I'm a nice guy and it just doesn't work. I want to change my personality and become a jerk so girls will like me more. How do I do this? Is it really possible to change my mindset completely?
- Don't change, you'll get a girlfriend...*eventually*... maybe89%(51)63%(90)Vote45%(39)
- Be a jerk and you will get a girlfriend2%(1)14%(20)Vote22%(19)
- Sorry bro, nice guys finish last9%(5)23%(33)Vote33%(28)
Most Helpful Girl
If I wanted to date a jerk, I'd just walk out my front door and walk down the street. They are EVERYWHERE. I cannot stand it.
Don't you EVER change. I mean it!
I cannot stand douche bags and jerks... cannot fucking stand it.
I'm surrounded by them.
I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. This is one of the main reasons... because I'm surrounded by total d-bags.5
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Most Helpful Guy
Ignore all these comments made by women. They're dead wrong. Some women prefer nice guys, other women prefer jerks. But it does seem that the jerks have more success than nice guys. In my experience over many years, women are more likely to go after you when you are a jerk. Just give it a try and see how it goes.2