so here i go. I've been talking with this guy for some months and he treated me like a QUEEN , he told me that im matured , that he loves my heart my brain , he compliments me in which way he can. when i was "going crazy" he came to my house and bought what i wanted to eat without asking me and of course i liked it , everytime we met up and after we're done there would be only a minute that i would be away from him cause he will call and say 'let talk in the phone until u reach ur home , just to make sure u're okay' . he's very masculine , protective , sweet , caring. he cares about me the way no one ever had. and i think im falling for him , when i open my eyes in the morning i run to get my phone and there's always a 'good morning my angel ' text. but the PROBLEM is that he wants to get in a serious relationship with me , and i want to very bad , but im 17 and he's 24 and I'm scared to tell my parents that i want to get in a relationship cause if i've never been in a real relationship before and i've sneaked from my house a lot of time to meet up with him and i feel bad about lying to my parents that im "going out with my friends" im scared that they will shout at me and tell me to get over this boy and this would be a night mare.
I don't know what to do :( im stucked in between "going secretly with the boy im fallin and lying to my parents " and " want to tell my parents so i could get out of the house freely without any worries , but with the fear that they might come between us" im screwed up i know. i just want to have both : my parents and him. please tell me what to do. both options of two genders would help me perfectly. my parents are so protective over me and love me so much but im so scared to tell them cause i dont know how they would react. sorry for taking your time <3
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if you can't hide this from your parents then take a leap of faith and tell them, maybe they won't say anything against it, or you can ask your parents like this"that if i like a 24 year old guy would you approve of this? if the guy is really mature and decent?" and then see what is your parents reaction.1