It seems like guys have to do everything when it comes to dating. And all a girl has to do is show up. Now maybe it' was just the girls I've went on dates with but I had to do everything. From starting conversations. To asking questions just to get a one sided convo out of her. It seems like every time I go on a date I'm doing everything. I don't mind planing a date or paying for dinner or what not. I'm ok with that. My last date was the same me doing everything. So I ended it short. Maybe I've just picked some bad girls I don't know. It just seems like a guy has to do everything to get a girl while all she does is show up and open her legs. Not trying to be offensive. I'm 100% sure not every girl is like that. But why do guys have to do majority of the work when dating?
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Interesting, I'm having the exact same experience, though I'm a girl. I start convos, I send the first message, I get one word answers and they don't ask questions.
I have no idea why one person has to do so much work. I've been online dating for 4 months and have only been on 2 dates. Both guys said I was too nice. So I guess that's my problem?
I'm not sure how long you've been trying, but keep trying. Maybe you will find a girl who is like me who puts in effort and tries.0