I slept with this guy way sooner than I had intended to in the relationship. I don't regret it - we had a lot of fun and there's a lot of chemistry there, but I'm more interested in getting to know him, not just hooking up. I had planned to tell him this (that I had fun but I wanted to see if we could get there more naturally next time) at the end of our next date. He wanted to arrange the next date but the trouble is that I have a strong suspicion he's going to ask me to his place for the whole date. If he does, what is a kind way that I can redirect the conversation and get us to a more "neutral" place (like a bar) without offending him or sounding like I'm not interested? Scripts or lines doubly appreciated!
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Just tell him that while you don't mind staying in sometimes, you've really been wanting to go out and do something. (Your choice as to what that thing/place is.) Then you could suggest heading back to his place after your activity of choice, if that's something you want to do. That way you get the best of both worlds.1