Well, I certainly don't sleep with strangers which is basically the first date.
I wait a while because I feel like things go better that way.
It depends on how long I will wait to have sex. But it was longer when I was inexperienced. Granted, I've only had sex with 3 people, each time was different. So, I don't see a real trend, except that I don't sleep with strangers or on those first few dates.
I don't intentionally do that. But I would like to have sex when my feelings for him is strong. I'm not going to have sex outside of a monogamous relationship. I'm not "luring" him to get into a relationship with me. It's how I am. Since I don't do casual flings/hook ups etc
I wait until I'm ready. If I like a guy, id want to take my time getting to know him, i won't have sex until i really know a person. not bc it proves anything but bc why would i have ex with a stranger., I'm not withholding sex to hold on. I'm just waiting till I'm ready. this could take however long it takes. probably a year at least.
Well definitely Not too long to loose him. But you dont want to make him miserable either. Its really just a matter of him bringing it up and just us deciding on a good time. Whenever he wants really. But only if i love him and know for sure that he's the only man in my life.
oh god. The lesson all our momma's and friends tried to teach us. Honestly, I really try. But, I think I start to slip up within the first month, whether I know we're exclusive or not. Sex isn't as taboo as it was before, so thankfully men don't really look at it as me being easy. But, I do like to get to know them well before I initiate it. With my current boyfriend we waited somewhere between 2 and 4 weeks of being exclusive before we tried having sex. the distance really helped seeing as he lives on the opposite side of the county from me and we were not driving at the time. I've been with him for over 4 years now.
I have never had sex with anyone who i didn't know for at least a year. Its because i feel like i need to be completly comfortable with that person inorder to be intimate with them. But I do have to say I let a guy eat me out after only three months of knowing him and I felt so slutty😫...
Well I'm not sure if I'd call it withholding. I just don't have sex until I'm comfortable with the guy. I knew my first for a year before we had sex. And as I just mentioned in another question, it was 9 years before I had sex with an ex.
mostly the Girls care about feelings, romance and tenderness , sex last thing care about it
I'll never understand how women can have one night stands with asshole bad boys, then turn around and make the guys who are relationship material wait for months. It's quite honestly a slap in the face.