So this girl my new boyfriend of 5 months used to work with, came to visit this past weekend. She arrived around 5:30 on Saturday night and we were all supposed to meet up later and go out.
Him and her went out to dinner and caught up, but he didn't text me until 11:30 to meet. That kind of annoyed me because I could have been doing other things prior to meeting up with them. I was with friends, yes, cause I knew he was out, but I cut it short with them because I figured he'd call by 9:30?
We went to a lounge and when we were standing in line he had his arm around her which kind of made me uncomfortable. He's usually extremely PDA, perhaps too much LOL, he didn't really give me a kiss or put his arm around me until other guys in the club started hitting on me because it looked like him and the other girl were likely together and I was the third wheel. Then his friend started making out with some guy, so he was normal the rest of the night.
They slept at my house that night because I have 3 bedrooms and live alone, when they left, he didn't kiss me or anything it was kind of awkward. He has four roommates and no extra beds in his house so I was assuming they shared a bed while she was there. He texted me the next day saying he slept like shit because he slept on the couch. I didn't ask him he just volunteered that information to me.. why? lol.
Then last night they went out to an expensive restaurant together. I don't know who paid but he never takes me anywhere like that, lol.. so I'm kind of annoyed and just really turned off by him.
I totally understand it was a friend visiting and you obviously have to spend time with you friend in town, but I'm at the point where when I smell bullshit I'm usually right.
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for the most part, it just sounds like he's trying not to make his friend feel like a third wheel.
that said, some of the other stuff is sketchy... him taking her out to dinner alone and his volunteering information you didn't ask for should definitely raise some red flags. if it bothers you, talk to him about it, but keep the focus on how you feel.0