On one hand i dont know how long it will take for her to want to give it up, she says she's not waiting for marriage, she's just waiting for the right guy. I really like her a lot, and she's not ugly at all, she's gorgeous. But i've never had a female that is a virgin. I'm not a virgin, and I don't know how i will deal with it. I think i'll wait for her if it works out. But if it were you, in my shoes, what would you do?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't just be with her because you want to bang her. The fact that you were bothered by this so much that you came on here to ask this question, shows your intentions are not all in the right place, therefore don't waste her time. She's waiting for a guy that's worth it.0
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Most Helpful Guy
See where it goes. If you are not worried about the sex right now, just keep dating and see what happens. If that NRE, the new relationship energy that hits a person when they get romantically interested in a person hits her hard enough, she will think you are the right guy while it's in effect. And maybe you actually are the right guy. So you lose nothing by dating her and seeing how she feels over time.
There is also the fact that if she is not worried about waiting until marriage itself, there will be other ways of getting off open to you sooner than actual intercourse. She will most likely be willing to do something like a handjob far earlier than penis-vagina sex, and something like that will really take the edge off of waiting. That may only be a month or two into the relationship before she's willing to at least touch you, who knows.
If you like her, date her and see what happens. If you find that it is too difficult, be honest and tell her. Don't try to manipulate her or force her into things too soon or it may backfire. But if you're a good guy, treat her well, and keep that open communication flowing, you will basically be the right guy that she is waiting for, and things will open up to you. And if you date her for a while and find that it's not working, that she is not worth waiting for, then you can break it off.0