I was in a relationship from age 13-19. It ended and I allowed myself 3 years to grow and learn who I am. I currently entered into another relationship and I'm having a hard time adjusting to being in a relationship. Like kissing and saying babe and everything. I think I've gotten used to being alone and doing things alone too. Any advice?
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I am in almost the same situation as you. Except I'm still flirting with my guy. My last relationship was quite abusive so getting used to a guy treating me the way he does takes some getting used to. But for me what I have been trying to do is if he opens the door I always say thank you and stuff ( out of habit I end up opening my own door) but little things that my ex never did and that I've gotten used to do am doing myself a hard to learn how to let someone in again. But with kissing and all that stuff it is hard but the more the relationship grows and progresses it will get easier. Some of what I do with him is ask him if he wants to go run errands with me not very exciting or anything but he will know you want time with him. You will learn you can trust him ( or not) and then once your there you can be on that level easier. Hope I helped a little bit. Good luck : )1