If I have an interest in a guy I usually lose it after a week or something, even if he's interested in me too. Same thing is if I date someone, I kind of lose that interest after a couple of weeks.. Then whenever I have to fight for what we have I'm just like whatever. It's so sad!! I feel like I'm gonna end up forever alone. I was super interested in a guy who was interested in me but I suddenly just lost it! I'm not interested at all. I'm not lesbian I just don't know what is wrong.
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No its not0
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It sounds like you like the adrenaline rush of a new relationship. Early in the relationship of believe the primary brain chemical is adrenaline. But the body can't sustain that state of being long term, so then it switches to something else. I forget which chemical. But when that happens it doesn't mean you have lost interest, just that things are progressing.
Try to get clear on what qualities are important to you on a man. Then try dating that man for as long as he fulfills your relationship needs (and try to let go of needing it to feel wonderful all the time). Give the love a chance to grow.1