So me and this girl meet online on a dating app (not tinder) So their's already this preconception that we are both looking for a releationship.
We both decided to meet that night. Things where going well when we where messaging, we meet up and things are going even better. We have a lot in common etc etc etc.
So one thing leads to another we end up kissing. (A lot)
I like this girl and she likes me.
My question is, is it a bad thing to jump into a releationship like this?
Just so you know this was meant to be a friendly meet, not a date, but one thing just lead to another. I didn't go there with the idea to make out with her. And I'm sure she didn't either.
Some of you will say it's lust. But can lust turn into love?
We get on well. we make each other laugh etc etc
would this relationship be doomed to fail because we rushed or do you know of relationships like this working out.
I'm 24 she's 23.
Is jumping into a relationship fast a bad thing?
What Girls Said 1
I think it varies. It's not live at this early point. You still have a lot of getting to know each other to do. In most cases, it is bad to jump into a relationship, although that is exactly what I did with my current boyfriend.
But before he and I started talking, I had done a lot of work on myself, got very clear on what I want and need from a relationship, and had talked to a LOT of other guys so I was confident my head and heart were both I this.
So we jumped into being exclusive quickly.
But if you DO Jump into it, don't neglect to still build up that friendship with her, and try to pace the relationship at least a little ;)0
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