I've been seeing a guy for a month we have met every weekend but this weekend he says he wants to have a chill weekend to himself so I won't be seeing him :( he works long hours through the week so I do understand but I'm thinking he's not that into me ! I'm disappointed we won't be meeting each other tomorrow night he usually stays at my house for the night. Do you think he just wants some time to himself or losing interrest in me?
He needs him time. Guys really need that sometimes. If a guy has had a shitty week at work, trying to put on a face of cheerfulness or interest for his lady friend will fall flat because either he'll say something rude or she'll see the disinterest on his face.
Support him by letting him have some chill alone time.
I think he just need his space a bit.. If he wants so spend some " alone " time or with his friends that doesn't mean he lots interest in you... Its important to give a guy a bit space, coz if he feels the girl is too " attached" to him then that might make him get uncomfortable
Perhaps you'd get used to it, but perhaps he doesn't have the same need for connection that you do. As opposed to viewing it as losing interest in you, I'd look hard at whether you each want the same type of r/ship. I'd suggest you talk about it with him (when you see him) -- and tell him that you want a r/ship where you see one another every weekend, unless there's some sort of emergency, and ask what he is after. If you're not after the same thing, better to know sooner rather than later.