I'm a senior in high school and I'm so done with high school guys. The guys in my high school are so immature and rude. Does it get any better in college? Are the college guys more mature, sophisticated, intelligent and kind, or are they the same as high school guys? I heard the hookup culture is thriving on college campuses because women are outnumbering men by a lot. Should I be worried?
Some are, some aren't. Some middle aged men are not that different from those HS guys you are talking about. Chances are you'll just be introduced to a larger pool of men, and will, therefore, be able to find a larger pool of mature men. Maturity and age do not equate in either gender. There are mature HS men, although maybe not at your school...
Most college guys are scrawny. I go to ubc campus and I'm more built than the typical student there. But I was a labour worker for quite some time and most people don't know how to build muscle as I learned weight training at an early age.
I was at a huge college last semester before I transferred, so there was a big population of Frats and sororities (which creates a superiority complex/immaturity, not all Frats do, but most) and I would say 60-70 % of the guys are the same as guys in high school. On big college campuses there is most likely always going to be a big hookup scene, but the college I transferred to (which is private and very small) literally doesn't have one. If you're really wanting to meet someone, you should just talk to people in your courses that way you can kind of see how serious they are taking their education.
Well, I'm about to go off to college. I'm also a senior. My boyfriend is a junior. I'm sure things will be different in the dating world in college. I'm not a fan of all high school guys, but my boyfriends not so bad, lol.