Yesterday, G@G swapped sex/gender of the users for some fun and we appreciated it by putting a pic of our crush (probably)
Most girls had the pic of a tanned, ripped, strong jawline, no body hair man. Some had classy facial hair and some had tattoos too
Guys' expectations were obvious. Big boobs, big ass and a face of your average Instagram chick.
Now, the question is... aren't the beauty standards pretty much clear? Do YOU think your future SO will look like this? How happy are you with your current SO not looking like this? How strict are your preferences? Did the expectations of the opposite sex made you feel better or worse?
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I'm in a relationship so I'll answer your questions from that perspective.
My boyfriend doesn't look like the description you put, and I've never been attracted to the "muscular type."
Are the beauty standards clear? I would say the general expectations of perfect "hot" person are clear, I've just never been attracted to it. I do consider that guy hot and guys I'm attracted to cute because of social norms.
Do I think my future s/o will look like this? I hope not.
Am I happy with my current so not looking like that? YES! I love how my so looks. And I love how he acts too!
How strict are my preferences? I'd say my preferences are generally pretty relaxed. I've dated a variety of "body types". I just have never dated the particular type of guy you described. I'm simply not attracted to alpha male types.
Did the expectations make me feel better or worse? If I'm being honest I was pretty oblivious. I spent most the evening with my daughter and boyfriend and we were having a great time so I didn't pay much attention to gag.0