So I've been pretty into my guy friend for a while. I finally told him I saw him as more than just a friend and his reply was that he's not looking for anything super serious, but open to flings and stuff like that. I'm looking for advice from guys as to what that means. Is he blowing me off? Does he just wanna sleep together?
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He's actually being far more honest than most guys would in his situation. You like him as "more than a friend." He likes you as a friend but is open to a casual sexual relationship. He's telling you this plainly that he isn't wanting anymore than that, for whatever reason.
A lot of guys would lead you on and use you for sex. He's being a man and saying that he'd rather be your friend but if you want some casual fun-time, no strings attached, he's willing.1