I saw a question on GAG about payments on Dating, in which not even a single girl replied that a girl should/can pay, however many of them said 50/50 but interestingly 10 girls said guy should pay which infers a likelihood that society tends to expect that a guy should pay while thinking of gender equality at the same time. i was just getitng curious how it looks form girl's point of view if she had to pay for a guy.
So girls! how would u feel in such situation where u are paying for a guy?
will u keep doing it on regular basis? or once in a blue moon?
what do u think of such guy? a less man?
(Please ignore grammatical mistakes if there are any, as English is not my native language)
- Nah, Why should i pay for a GUY? is he not a Man enough to pay his own bills?8%(2)10%(3)Vote14%(1)
- Sometimes its ok, but not everytime75%(18)71%(22)Vote57%(4)
- I don't mind if i have to do it everytime17%(4)19%(6)Vote29%(2)
Most Helpful Girl
In my relationship I usually pay when we go out because my boyfriend doesn't have time for a job on top of all his college classes. I don't mind because I would rather him save what money he has for school or food related things, but he still treats me every now and again when he can even if I tell him he doesn't have to.2
Most Helpful Guy
This is a good point. I never understood why women fight to have equal income, but at the same time women almost always expect the guy to pay. Me personally, I'm financially off... so I always pay. I do like to pick apart certain norms though, and this is a good one. How would women feel if they were the ones expected to pay a mass majority of the time, as guys are expected to do.1