I actually don't believe there's any other human that I can tolerate as much as him. How do I make him have a baby with me? I've told him he's free to leave for years and he's still here how do I trick him into believing he wants children with me?
Get a career and make good money. Then worry about babies.
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Tricking him sounds like a terrible idea (sorry). A baby is incredibly hard to deal with once you have it. Yes its a blessing, but the most difficult. If he hasn't left its because he likes you, that doesn't at all make him ready for a baby. I think you should just tell him, but do it in a way he has the upperhand, that way he'll see that you really respect his opinion. First, I would say something like "hey do you have a minute to talk about something or should I come back later?" now I know its weird to be so formal with someone you're sooo close with, but trust me it gives them that sense of being and it makes them more ready for a truthful conversation. Now is when you discuss what kind of life you imagine with him, "I have always pictured my future with a great man, and kids.. etc etc" and you have to let him know if he can't provide that for you someday you think its best to go somewhere else (competition is often a huge motivator for men). Finally, ask his opinion, again to let him know you respect his thoughts, and that his say is important to the matter. You dont have to use this its just an easy way to manipulate people to doing what you want. Good luck!
How do you trick your boyfriend into doing something he doesn't want to? You don't.
Don't fucking trick people into having children with you, just because you want children. That's so fucking disgusting and malicious.
If you want a kid, then leave him and find a man who wants a kid too, or adopt one on your own. or get artificially inseminated. Don't drag a man into paternity if he doesn't want to. That is fucking evil.
Never trick a guy into having a baby. If you do the chances he will run for the hills increases dramatically. Also, at least in America, when a woman has a child with a man the government grants her significant power over his life, and doesn't check to make sure she is being responsible with that power.
You DO NOT. Men don't take well to women trying to trick them into things, and if he finds out he just might take up the offer to leave. You should sit down with him and ask him to hear you out. I can promise he'll be way more receptive and interested than if you just decided to trick him or manipulate him. Make sure that you let him know how much it means to you, I'm pretty sure he'll listen :)
You don't because that's fucked up. You can't trick anyone into having a baby. The best you can do is say: If you don't want to have children with me then I will find someone who does. Emotionally and mentally manipulating someone is going to create an unhealthy relationship dynamic to bring your child into, especially since he'll realize quickly that he DID NOT want children.
You are way too young to be having a baby! They are little people, and you are responsible for taking care of them. They aren't dolls. If you believe in tricking someone you love, you aren't ready for love. Not the romantic kind, not the true kind, not the friendship kind, and certainly not the parental kind. If you need 'baby time', go work at a day care for a while. You'll get plenty of exposure to babies there.
That's fucked up in my opinion. I say talk to him and ask if he wants to. A baby is a person, a living being, a huge responsibility. A baby is NOT a tether or leash or any type of restraint system to keep a man.
You shouldn't. Talk to him and see if thats what he wants as well. Remember, the two of you are in a relationship and you have to be mindful of eachother thoughts and feelings. Dont do that because he may never forgive you for it.