A very good looking girl... Rich, intelligent, cute, sexy who can pretty much have any guy she wants...
Do looks matter to such women?
Or is it all about confidence, sense of Humor etc?
- Yes, looks are most important.22%(12)33%(29)Vote50%(17)
- Looks don't matter at all.0%(0)5%(4)Vote12%(4)
- Good looks is icing on the cake, the real deal is confidence and sense of humor.70%(38)56%(49)Vote32%(11)
- Real deal is looks, confidence and humor is just icing on cake.8%(4)6%(6)Vote6%(2)
Most Helpful Girl
This really depends on the situation for me. Of course if I see a guy that is very attractive regularly, I will want to get to know him, in order to see what his personality is like. If he's got a decent/average personality than Im cool with that, if his personality isn't cutting it for me, it'll just be a friendly thing from there. Now on the other hand, i've also been attracted to guys that aren't as attractive, but they know how to dress, they're confident, and they're hilarious. They knew how to project themselves well essentially. Point is, attraction can start with looks, but we might overlook physical features entirely just because it feels good to be around that person.1
Most Helpful Guy
Trust me, I've been good looking my whole life and the only thing it gets you is 1 night stands (which I'm not about). Other then that if you want a long term relationship it really isn't that helpful. It might get the girl to notice you, but most girls dont approach guys anyway so whats the benefit of her noticing you if she will never say anything to you? I've had probably half a dozen girls interested in me from a relationship standpoint who just never told me, or showed me. Then like 6 months later her friends would tell me "oh yeah so and so used to like you a lot, why didn't you ask her out?" and I'm just sitting there like..."Really... this girl expected me to ask her out without saying anything to me?". Other then that though I haven't had too much luck with women, I've gotten rejected plenty of times, a lot of girls will come up and talk to me, and then walk away because they dont like how I act. I used to get really self conscious about that, but at this point I just dont care. They can think what they want about me, I am who I am and that isn't going to change.
So in short looks are beneficial for the first 10 seconds of knowing most girls, when you approach her she will be like "wow this guy is good looking" but then the minute you open your mouth its easy to screw up her perception of you since women dont care about looks that much.1