I have short hair and an androngynous face so i get mistaken as a guy a lot, but some people can tell im a girl. I do have a distinctly femine name, so people realize after they hear it. So im wondering if any guy could ever like me, given that i kind of dress masculiny and dont act like a girl. How would you feel if you met a guy and found out they were actually a girl? Does anyone find that attractive?
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I'm sure some would, but if you have short hair, an androgynous face, and dress masculinely, I'm pretty sure most guys would understand you to be their competition rather than the objective. They might very well find you to be cute, but your style could be interpreted as saying "not interested".
I'm not saying you should change, but you might have to make it clear that you are interested in other ways.1