I know you don't want a girls opinion, but think of the situation in the long run. looks only go so far, and eventually in the relationship you'll want to talk about more intellectual information rather than "how was your day?". yeah they're pretty to look at, nice to kiss, nice to have sex with but that's all you'll ever have, without communication and physical sexual attraction (chemistry) - most relationships don't work out. but that's just my opinion, don't listen to me. I'm sure on the inside you're saying the same thing. or "shut the fuck up, I know what I want and you can't tell me what to do!" lol
to me its all very veg i would need to know to what extent values are different. an example if she does not value a committed relationship then no i wouldn't even go out on a date with her. but if it was just family size and how many kids that can always be a middle ground in that. when it comes to social class she would possibly be slumming it going after me and i like the simple things in life i don't need a lot. so i don't think i could afford to support the life she is use to. but if she is willing to go 1/2 way then yes i would be happy to put in the effort to be what she wanted in a guy.