The question was playing on my mind after giving advice to my guy friend how to get a girlfriend. However at the end of the day he ended up crying his eyes out because he hasn't had a girlfriend in a year - Had to explain to him that I never had a boyfriend so should count himself lucky!
But do you guys worry about being single? Is their a reason why your still single or just haven't found the right person?
Most Helpful Guy
Ya, sometimes. It's scary not to fit into the role that all people are supposed to. From a young age we're told that a partner needs to validate us or we're undesirable. Dont be a virgin, why aren't you dating someone, god forbid you turn into a spinster. That's life in our society. There's more to life than just one role though and no one really needs someone else to validate them. So yes. I worry about it, but I also love myself enough to live life to fullest whether or not I have a partner atm.2
Most Helpful Girl
Not at all... in fact at this point in my life at 37 ... I feel like having the no strings thing would be much better... emotions just fuck everything up when it doesn't work out... I have been married and now divorced.. in relationships with people I thought would be there for me and had my back.. was cheated on and mentally and verbally abused multiple times.. I refuse to turn my life upside down for anyone.. my dogs and cats give me more love and companionship than any human... sad but true and I doubt it will ever change... bet there are actually more people out there that would agree with me...0