I asked a similar question but I think it would be more appropriate as a poll.
Are you responsible for the quality of your past and present relationships?
- True, you are responsible for who you chose date82%(9)79%(11)Vote67%(2)
- False, you are not responsible for the relationships you enter18%(2)21%(3)Vote33%(1)
Most Helpful Girl
Of course you're responsible or WHO you choose to date. As for the quality of past/present relationships... maybe you hold 80% of responsibility for that. Keeping in mind that it's all in you to put in the effort+compromise, but there are external factors like how much of that you get from your partner.2
Most Helpful Guy
We are responsible for the relationships we enter and how we conduct ourselves.1