What qualities are you in search for?
Guys, What do you look for in a girlfriend honestly?
What Guys Said 19
That depends. Normally I meet people in person so it's based on chemistry. If I had to boil it down though it's something like
1. They're a kind person.
2. They value perspectives outside of their own. This includes those of homeless people and people who could be called crazy.
3. They're interested in understanding people on an emotional level.
4. They've got something that drives them, even if it's ambiguous.
5. Deceptiveness is an instant no. I can't be comfortable around someone like that.
These aren't hard and fast rules for anyone, myself included. I just generally get along with people who have these traits.2
In that order
2. Interesting to be with
3. NOT ugly ( I dont want a 10/10. I just want someone who I feel attracted to. Sometimes I feel that for women judged as smoking hot.. and sometimes for women other guys wouldn't date. I go by MY feelings not societal standards)
4. Good at communicating. Doesn't play games.1
The opposite of the typical feminist:
- In shape
- A good sense of humour
- Can cook
- Family oriented rather than career oriented4
Qualities? Lots of confidence, feminine personality, fit and motivated, likes to dance, ambitious, fun and flirty.1
1- get along with her
2- not annoying
3- pretty hot, at least
4- at least averagely smart
5- at least somewhat interesting2
Honesty, loyalty, and a measure of self-reliance.
Basically, I want a woman that doesn't NEED me, rather she WANTS me in her life.1
confidant in their own way
feminine ( not affraid of being a woman)
beautiy which can be intrinsic as well as extrinsic
willing to pull her weight in a relationship
got some kind of goal or ambition in life2
Genuinely speaking I don't think women really have anything specifically interesting to look for. You either get along with them or don't.1
A face, a sense of humor, kindness1
I look for a friend.2
1 - Honest
2 - Open-minded
3 - Good sense of Humor
4 - I find personally attractive
5 - Gamer
6 - Ambitious
7 - Knows that relationships are work, and is willing to put in the time and energy.1
I mostly look for a good fun loving person at in a girl.1
Someone I can talk, cry, complain to, be myself around with.
someone that doesn't mind my flaws and enjoys our awkward moments.
Someone I can spend the rest of my life with and be a good mother to our children.0
A woman who is a woman and how nature intended her to be. , not a feminist or someone trying to defy nature and evolution.0
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