It's been awhile since I last asked a question on here. Throughout my dating life, I surprisingly got 4 girlfriends in an 8-year span (2 being last year alone). Each time, however lasted less than 2 weeks since I got dumped each time. It feels like I'm junk compared to all of the other guys around. It's been a rough year since I've been clinically diagnosed with mild depression due to my last ex.
Every since my last breakup, I have a very hard time talking to girls in person. However, I do very well using texting and social media when talking to girls. Once the initial shyness goes away, I do like to talk a lot about many topics with girls. However, no girls want to talk to me.
I know this is all my fault since I'm unable to become the perfect man every girl dreams of (especially with my last ex). However, I am working on myself to become free from my family's control and move to an environment where I can excel in.
I would like feedback and any criticisms (since people are mostly critical on the internet) about what I should do moving forward?
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I see your pic, and you look really stiff. As in the way you carry yourself. You don't look comfortable in your own skin in a way?
I would stop calling 2 weeks a girlfriend, especially if you are going back to when you were 14.
It's good that you are putting your effort into self improvement and indeoendence. Those are both positive qualities.
"I know this is all my fault since I'm unable to become the perfect man every girl dreams of (especially with my last ex). "
In my opinion this is the most telling part of why you might be having women troubles. First of all, it is very negative. Now everyone is negative at times (and to your credit you followed up by showing optimism) but it is VERY self critical. You aren't negative about a situation or venting you are actually almost attacking yourself as fundamentally flawed.
Not every girl wants the same things.0