How come guys don't ever ask me for my number. Sometimes, I may notice a guy checking me out or they will stare at me but a guy has never approached me and given me his number. I mean, one time, I noticed a guy staring at me but when I looked at him, he looked away like he wasn't even looking at me in the first place. When I do notice a guy staring at me, I might stare back to show interest but nothing happens. But it's not like I notice men checking me out/staring at me very often, it happens maybe a couple times a year lol. Many of my friends brag about how men, especially when they are at work, will leave a note to them saying how beautiful they are and will write down their phone number. Guys don't do this to me. But for me, all I get is a check out or stares from guys. I have only had 3 men in my life tell me I am 'very' beautiful (when they tell me this I am shocked because men barely approach me) but they were older men who approached me (still, they never asked for my number though..) and I do not see myself getting in a relationship with an older man. I get really depressed because I have never had a boyfriend before and most of my friends are in relationships and they have experience with guys whereas I have none. I am not a picky person nor do I have high standards when it comes to looking for a romantic partner, but I feel like most of my friends who are approached by men have a variety of guys to choose from. Whereas, I feel like I don't and have to take anything that maybe comes my way. I am very old school and I don't believe in a woman approaching a man (nothing will literally change my mind).
Most Helpful Guy
"I am very old school and I don't believe in a woman approaching a man (nothing will literally change my mind)."
So basically you refuse to risk rejection. You made your bed then. You are the one that has to lay in it.
Virtually every other aspect of your life involves you going after what you want and putting forth the effort to achieve whatever it is that you want to gain or accomplish, but you would still rather sit on your hands and wait around as your youth ticks away instead of building up some courage and making something happen with another guy yourself.
Do yourself a favor. Change your mindset. You have nothing to lose and much to gain.0
Most Helpful Girl
Most people are terrified of rejection.0