If I may expand:
i mean, it seems like it's "anything goes" now.. Relationships and dating are such blurred lines. I feel as if prior years they started slower, sex was held out longer (depending on culture and location of course. I'm mostly meaning in the U. S.), the men had to have this kind of fake facade in order to take women out, it seemed like such a big ordeal... And now it's super casual and chilled. Like, the person you may end up marrying could be someone that started as sex buddy or a friends with benefits instead of having to take them on dates and woo them that way. Am I making sense? I suck at explaining this, but I just feel as if the whole dating world is very different and different rules apply now.
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From the looks of this site it has. Very surprised by the number of women doing things like watching porn and having fuck buddies. I feel positively old fashioned!
I don't think its a good thing however. I can't see very many people have benefited from sexual liberation. Many woman say they like casual sex but then I see so many questions from women unhappy in these casual arrangements. Most women want commitment in the long run and most men don't want to settle down with a woman with a colourful past.
I suppose men that want just casual sex benefit, those that can get it that is. But then most men also want more from women in the long run as well, be it commitment, love a family. So very few winners from where I'm standing. But I suppose I'm a dying breed. A dinosaur on the verge of extinction.1