What is it that you do for your S/O to make them feel like you care? Also what do they do to make you feel cared for? Or what would you want your S/O to do for you to make you feel special?
Most Helpful Guy
Physically. Hugs, kisses, touching her body, caressing her, etc. If she's around me, she's going to feel me at some point.
Now, it's come to my attention that a combination of trauma and cultural norms on her end makes this a poor practice. Which sucks.
To make me feel special, she has to reciprocate in some way. Like, give me attention when I don't expect it. Reach out, care, and even return that physical contact. When it's flowing two ways, that's an ideal relationship.2
Most Helpful Girl
By bringing them foods, kisses, hugs, food, kisses, food, hugs, coffee, hugs, coffee, sex.
They just need to be there when I needed them. Like for example: when I have a mental breakdown, my dad just passed away a month ago so i cry very often, them being there already makes me feel loved.1