Most Helpful Girl
a fun personality honestly. nothing grabs my attention better than a guy who can hold a conversation with me.2
Most Helpful Guy
Not a woman, but it's easy to know what most women tend to look for on a first date.
First of all is manners. Do you hold the door open for her. Do you say thank you and please. How do you interact with other people. How you eat your food...
They also want a nice conversation. It's a first date, so you're getting to know each other, but if you sound like you're analyzing her, that's gonna be boring. You gotta have a conversation that flows easily where you laugh and get to know each other at the same time.
A good conversation would be one where you don't have to ask a question for you to receive an answer.
I think another thing they like is how smart you are (this won't apply to every woman though). Sure, you can know who won the last Super Bowl, or that DiCaprio won the Oscar this year, but do you know how to place France in a map? Do you know who the Chancellor of Germany is? If during the conversation you're funny but you sound dumb, many girl would feel turned off by that.
Presentation is another huge thing. You can't go on a date with shorts and flip flops, dress for the occasion. It's better to go overdressed, than wearing less than what you should.
Cologne. Wear cologne.
Smile. Show her that you're enjoying your time with her. If you look boring, she'd get worried, and will end up feeling bored too.3