So I'm 21 - I go online to dating websites. Guys tell me I'm beautiful or pretty or that they love my smile. I try to do the approaching as well if I find them attractive. I don't believe im boring when texting? I show interest in what they talk about. I'm patient when they don't text back. I don't double text when they dont text me. I meet some of the online guys in real life. They act like they really enjoy hanging out with me. They laugh, we talk, I try to keep it friendly and not flirt. After hanging out with them, they dont contact me again or they say they like me and disappear. I'm not understanding what im doing wrong? I dont look different from my picture? I dress clean, I wear makeup. I have a little acne but the makeup covers it up. I dont know what im doing wrong at all. I can be a little shy but I still talk. One guy invited me for drinks and he never confirmed or showed up. What can I do differently? Is it because of my race? Am I not pretty enough?
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Are you certain to make sure they know you like them? Sometimes it seems like guys are expected to read minds. If they put in some effort, do you expect them to put in all the effort? Do you text them, call them, ask them out, etc? These could be part of it. It also could be they decided they wasn't interested even if you are pretty. Being pretty is very common, having a great heart and personality is rare.0