Do you prefer to actively look at other peoples' profiles and message them, or do you just wait for other people to message you first and then take your pick from those?
- I prefer to message first no matter what8% (1)33% (3)18% (4)Vote
- I prefer to wait to be messaged no matter what46% (6)22% (2)36% (8)Vote
- I would message first if I had to, but I get so many messages that I don't feel the need to31% (4)0% (0)18% (4)Vote
- I would prefer to be messaged first, but I don't get enough incoming messages so I have to send messages myself15% (2)45% (4)28% (6)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I am not on a online dating site.0
Most Helpful Guy
Voted D, because I'm a dude. Dudes don't tend to get messaged first.
90% of the time when I was on dating sites, I had to do the messaging.0