We've been going out for almost a year and this has been him since she gave it to him, I think February of last year and he won't get rid of it. Every time I bring it up he asked like I'm the bad guy trying to control his life and tell him what to do. It's at his parent house in his old room so not at our apartment but still it hurts me that he still has it.
Is it me? Am I the one in the wrong? Or should he get rid of it?
Opinions and comments would help a lot thank you.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, it's his stuff and you have no reason to demand for him to throw his stuff out.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd be mad as well, especially over the fact that he hasn't thrown anything away.
But then again, maybe he keeps them for nostalgia reasons, it doesn't necessarily mean he still thinks of her.
Anyway, I am sort of a vengeful person so if I were in your position, I'd wear a bracelet/shirt/skirt/or anything else. If he complimented on it, I'd simply tell him with a smile: "Oh you like it? It was a gift from my ex while we were dating".0