Hi! I am 165cm, 60kg and I want to get to 50kg, dieting and exercising/toning up at the moment and making progress. However I'm afraid my boyfriend will go find someone skinnier because I don't look my best at the moment. Is it common for guys to do that? He said he loves me because of my personality, I'm beautiful, funny etc. I met him through a mutual friend who said at the beginning that he was into slim girls...
so should I be worried? We have lots of fun together, play video games, ride bikes, watch movies etc but I just feel he'll leave if a skinnier girl comes along...
Most Helpful Guy
No, but if you worry too much and obsess enough to become depressed and anorexic (considering 50 kg is below your natural weight at that height, your absolute minimum is 54 kg but 56-58 is just fine, and I personally would prefer 60 as it is), then he might leave for someone who feels healthy and doesn't want to become clinically underweight.0
Most Helpful Girl
If your boyfriend is only with you because of your looks, then yes, he will stray.
However TRUE, REAL LOVE, and RESPECT doesn't just because there's someone in the room who may be more attractive than you.
If any man respects you, a model looking woman can walk into the room, and he will not notice her and have all of his eyes on you.
Don't feel worried.
Your insecurities are speaking.
If he gives you no reason to feel that way, don't!
Your insecurities can be the ending of your own relationship if they eventually grow louder than the confirmation he is giving you, that all will be okay.0