Can you tell straight away when meeting a girl if she's relationship material? Is it her personality which is the most important determiner for wanting to commit? Is confidence really important? Would you have to find her incredibly beautiful or would some sort of physical attraction do? I know everyone will be different but just curious :)
Easiest way just answer each question you asked (1) No the feeling probably grows as you connect with her. When you first meet her if you feel attraction and the attraction/connection grows, you probably analyse if there is a chance for a relationships (2) Normally something standout attracts you first her looks, something she did like maybe displayed a talent but once you are over that her personality becomes a growing factor and for me the predominant factor in deciding whether I want a relationship with her. (3) It differs from guy to guy - I find it very attractive but it has to be true confidence not cocky false confidence (4) Again each guy is different but looks are sometimes the thing that gets you noticed but it is not the only thing. If you laugh a lot with your friends and a guy is around, he might think "She seems really nice".
1 no 2 that her morals and her attitude towards her future 3 somewhat a lot of people my age have no idea what they will be doing in 10 years 4 yes she has to be my type of woman. 5 she has to not be to broken by her past. Often women want the men to fix them. I'm looking for a woman who is working on herself already without my help.
1. I can't tell right away, it takes some time, like a few weeks to a few months depending on how much we talk. 2. Her personality is the most important for wanting to commit yes. There has to be a serious connection, we have to understand each other very well and enjoy each others' company for extended amounts of time. 3. Confidence isn't super important to me, but it matters a little. Saying self deprecating things all the time or being super clingy are turn offs. 4. She doesn't have to be "incredibly" beautiful but I would have to find her moderately attractive. The difference (for me) between good friends and a romantic interest is the physical attraction part.
In order of your four questions. Yes. It helps, but depends on the guy. Yes, you have to have a certain level of confidence and not seem like a total pushover. Some sort of physical attraction will do.
wife material kind considerate respect for elders trustworthy a bit common sense, knowledge loving. looks, fitness, colour and confidence has nothing to with it. but they are just like adding ketchup on a hot dog.
Chemistry. U should b gasping for air in her presence Your heart should race and when u go to bed u should think about her all the time
I look for assertiveness and confidence and a bunch of things that are probably considered typically masculine traits, but I don't care. I want someone who'll partially somewhat fill the stereotypical masculine role in the relationship.
QUESTION ANSWERS 1. Probably not. 2. Mostly. 3. Mostly. 4. As long as there's physical attraction, it's fine.
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