I have been seeing this nice, taciturn guy for some time. The last time we talked he asked me to go out with him and I agreed. But he didn't arrive to that date and the next day I texted him what happened. He said that he was sorry and that he got a little too drunk so he couldnt drive to the meeting place.
Then we hadn't talked for a month. I texted him on Wednesday if we are going out or not. He didn't respond but the messenger chat tells me that he didn't see the message.
He's been active these days but only a little. He's a busy person.
Do you think I should try one more time? I think yes. What should I ask him so I dont sound needy? I was thinking of "is everything okay?" or something alike. What do you think?
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Ok, first of all to put it nicely, is probably not someone you want to be with. If he got too drunk to show up for a first date (where men usually try to impress, make a good first impression) then he probably isn't going to make the best date material.
Secondly, his behavior is SCREAMING not interested. Save your dignity a bit and chalk it up to "his loss"1