Met this guy on tinder when he was on a vacation in my country. He lives 4000 miles away from me. Recently he went back here to see me, spent several days together and at the end of his trip he told me he cares about me and wish we could be together. We are going to go on a vacation together on my birthday (November). He spent time with my friends too. Am I reading too much into this or does he really like me? Cause he hasn't texted me since 3 days ago.
Or could it be that he likes me but is trying to not like me as much and thats why he's pulling away?
I would just go 4,000 miles for any plain Jain but how serious are you two? If y'all more on the laid back side, who care just enjoy each other and don't let this mess up the experience. If y'all are more on the serious side, put your foot down and call him out on it.
I'd say he likes you but he's not crazy about you. Same thing is happening to me. There's this girl I like but I don't text her for days cause I just kinda forget. Just text him first he's probably an airhead like me.
Although his actions suggest he likes you a lot, it's not that hard to text someone and acknowledge that you're still thinking of them. Even the president couldn't be busy enough to be unable to type a few words to someone he cares about over the course of 3 days. I don't want to be too harsh here, but he could be a fuckboy who thinks he can juggle multiple girls and get away with it (which shouldn't be hard, considering you live in an entirely different country than him). I speak from personal experience, but not all guys are like that and obviously I don't know him. You didn't specify if you've been texting him and getting ignored, or if you've just been waiting around for a text rather than reaching out yourself. My advice is to tell him how you feel if he's ignoring you (I'm assuming you know him fairly well and you guys are open with one another?), or to give him a call if you haven't contacted him yet. Best of luck.
Yeah, I think he likes you, but perhaps he is too busy.