I'm literally in my room crying about this. I don't like boys, I like girls! The thought of dating a guy grosses me out. There is this guy in my class who I really have feelings for and now I feel like I have identity issues. I don't want to like him.
Most Helpful Guy
That would usually mean you were a 5 on the Kinsey scale, not a 6. Not uncommon at all, and nothing to be ashamed of. 0 is heterosexual, 3 is bisexual, 6 is homosexual. 5 is predominantly homosexual, with only some incidental heterosexuality. Like feeling attracted to one boy out of an entire school. That's not bi. That's not exclusively homosexual though, so that's why there is a scale. Very few people are actually out on the 'exclusive' edges.1
Most Helpful Girl
Don't label yourself like this, you're focusing too much on "being a lesbian". You might be bisexual, who knows? Feelings are feelings, you like who you like. What's the problem if you like this one guy? Your identity is something very different from your sexual orientation.1