I'm literally in my room crying about this. I don't like boys, I like girls! The thought of dating a guy grosses me out. There is this guy in my class who I really have feelings for and now I feel like I have identity issues. I don't want to like him.
That would usually mean you were a 5 on the Kinsey scale, not a 6. Not uncommon at all, and nothing to be ashamed of. 0 is heterosexual, 3 is bisexual, 6 is homosexual. 5 is predominantly homosexual, with only some incidental heterosexuality. Like feeling attracted to one boy out of an entire school. That's not bi. That's not exclusively homosexual though, so that's why there is a scale. Very few people are actually out on the 'exclusive' edges.
Don't label yourself like this, you're focusing too much on "being a lesbian". You might be bisexual, who knows? Feelings are feelings, you like who you like. What's the problem if you like this one guy? Your identity is something very different from your sexual orientation.
Even though you're a lesbian, you're a still a girl, you still have female hormones. It can happen. My advice: let it happen. You like girls but if he's the only guy you like, enjoy it! Perhaps you'll soon start to discover that you're bisexual, we can never know.
Girls sexuality is often fluid. You like a guy, so what? The problem with a lot of homosexuals these days is that you base your entire self-identity on your sexuality. Who cares who you are attracted to? It doesn't change who you are, so stop doing that shit. You have every right to feel you have identity issues, because in fact you have. You just covered them up by basing your identity on your sexuality and now your libido and heart gives you a heads-up that this was the wrong approach.
Try not to get too hung up on labels. You are you, not a label. If you're attracted to this one guy, then you are. Your GENERAL orientation is towards girls, but you find this guy attractive. That's all.
U should have pride in whoever you are. Dont label urself a lesbo then shame yourself when you find out you're not! Lol this is a bit lame and sad. Just chill relax and be whoever you are. dont love or not love someone to uphold some title or name. Such as being lesbian