Hi, so I'm trying to get back into the dating game but am struggling. Girls show interest at first and we have a good conversation for a bit, then it seems to always slow down. People will tend to stop asking questions and stop trying to carry the conversation. So I'm left with the question of am I doing something wrong? I ask questions, let them tell me about themselves but after a while they start to lose interest. Any ideas on what I might be doing wrong? Thanks.
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Guys lose interest as well. It's all part of the dating game, the key is to not have any expectations and play it with "not giving a damn" strategy. It sucks, I know, I'm in the same boat. Like one moment the guy is completely into me and the next he ghosts out or keeps making excuses why this or that. I mean I do the same, happened many times that I just lose it without any real reason, the spark just disappears. But I'm always honest, I don't make excuses nor do I ghost out. You're not doing anything wrong, you are just being yourself. And being ourselves doesn't garantee us success. You like your traits, but other person maybe doesn't or stops liking it because he/she found someone else with traits that suit them more. Dating is selfish and risky, but it's how it is and you don't really have other choice then to suck it up and play the game... until you meet someone compatible. Just keep being yourself. Don't change for anyone just so they would like you.0