so in the begiining of our dating was already a disaster with him bailing and minimal communication on his end. He came back and acknowledged that he messed up. I deleted him from my social media and even text message. one week later he reached out to me with these words exactly " So, what do you say.. I get one more chance that I can prove to you I can be a good BF? I'm on 2 strikes. I say you give me until 3 strikes"
we of planning our date back and forth but he ended up rescheduling ON THE DAY OFF. That was the last straw for me and I dropped him again. So wth happened to "I want to prove to you I can be a good BF"?
After I dropped him, he apologized for upsetting me and that he wishes me the best and won't bother me again.. I didn't respond beceaus I'm pretty pissed but deep down I really want to work it out. I'm just rying to stay strong because I don't want to be doormat. Anyways, it has been a few days and I haven't heard from him. Is this a game?
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That's the problem with us girls some times, we deal with guys that don't deserve our time bc we are so hopeful they will change and just want them so much, it's hard to let go. But people don't change overnight, and after how many times he's let you down, it doesn't matter what he says anymore because his ACTIONS say everything. It's gonna be disappointing and upsetting to let him go since you've invested time in him, but you gotta put your foot down. He does this because you let him. If you really leave him alone, then maybe he'll see that you're serious and actually try to change. Like I said though, people don't change overnight, so don't get your hopes up.0
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