im pretty sure he is- so he's an older guy--almost 60. It seems its hard for him to find sex- he says he's picky but I think that's bs. He'll hang out with women who aren't interested in him sexually- go out with them, take them out to dinner, but he comes to my house strictly to try to get laid. he thinks that b/c i said i wanted a friends with benefits when we met, he's entitled to this. He gets annoyed if I say I'm hungry and just want to go to subway and doesn't want to spend a dime on me. But he'll spend it on women who won't give him anything sexually. He gets annoyed that he hasn't gotten sex off me yet--how shud i respond to his attitude. Also im really hot, and other women reject him. He seems to act like he can use me this way, and even through text will disrespect me by saying stupid sexual crap to me like "did u shave yet" or he keeps saying he wants to make love to me all the time and asking me if i want it.
also, there's a guy i met recently- at a spiritual group i go to. He just started talking to me- i talked to him- seemed like a nice guy. He tried inviting me to some groups at this camp where there are lots of psychics. He was visiting and into that stuff. For days he began inviting me to this stuff- he acted as if we were friends and like he really wanted me to visit him. I found it kind of odd- that he wants me to visit so badly. normally it might seem like a nice thing, but the way he's acting, almost as if i should be visiting him, like he wants it so badly and i need to be there- i dont even know this guy. is this a red flag.
Is this guy being a jerk or disrespectful?
What Guys Said 2
current guy is going to make you feel very worthless as time passes. try to get away from him.1
He's desperate and once you gave him sex, he is using you as his (only) source, because he can't get it with anyone else.
I'd dump him.1
What Girls Said 1
The first guy is an old horny pervert. He can't get sex and uses his money and dinners to lure beautiful women to have sex with him. You mentioned that you told him you wanted friends with benefits and he probably thinks he can get in with you easily, without spending money on you. In other words , he thinks you are cheap and worthless. He is full of shit , can't say disrespectful because the fact that u mentioned that u want friends with benefits then he is just jumping on it.
The other guy sounds pretty cool. You guys met at a function and its pretty normally for him to see you as a nice person and want to hang out. If you dont like any of these guys then dont encourage or tolerate them.1
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