ftm means female to male of you didn't know. I've been on testosterone for awhile and I also workout so I look male and no one ever knows I'm trans unless I tell them. I'm 6'0 so that helps. This is very understandable if someone doesn't but could you see yourself dating someone who looks and identifies as a certain gender while having the sexual organs of another? Tbh i don't see why someone would intentionally date a trans person when you could have the real thing. Would that throw you off too much when being intimate or is it fine? I've never met any girls who were okay with it and I'm slightly scared that I'll never have a serious relationship. Quite tired of getting "you're attractive but I need a real guy sorry :(".
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah, you're a dude. I don't understand this phobia people have. As long as you got the right parts and are mentally a dude, I don't see the problem.
I hate how people always say "I support transgender people, they are who they feel they are" and then contradict themselves by saying "I wouldn't date them though because they aren't actually a dude/chick". Doesn't make sense to me...3
Most Helpful Guy
Such a person still has XX chromosomes, so that person is, in reality, a woman.
Therefore, any woman who was with her would be in a lesbian relationship.
Transgenderism is the manifestation of a mental illness. Such people should be helped through their problems, not mutilated by so-called gender reassignment surgery, which cannot be reversed.
I have read that the post-operative suicide rate for such people is huge, usually after they change their minds and realise the enormity of what they have done.3