I'm 17, and I've never really had a guy like me that way. If they do notice me, usually it's like I become invisible when a prettier, funnier, more confident girl walks in. Having grown up home schooled, isolated and anxious around people, I've been trying my hardest in recent years to be wittier, Charming, confident, and gorgeous but I remain slow, socially awkward, shy, and averagely imperfect looking. I suspect the problem lies in trying to change all of me at once when I deep down just want to be effortlessly worthy, when I really need to approach guys with practical steps. Does anyone have any tips or tricks or advice?
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Chances are, it is obvious that you are trying to be someone you aren't, you may be acting unnatural. I was/am pretty quiet and awkward, and the key is to change how you act not who you are.
Hang out with some friends who are more social, maybe even ask them for some help learning the ropes. I have helped some of my friends this way.
If you have a friend that will be brutally honest with you, ask them if you are doing anything that hurts your chances.
Hope that helps some. I'm a homeschooled too by the way, I know what it's like. I would be happy to PM with you and chat some more about it1