I'm 17, and I've never really had a guy like me that way. If they do notice me, usually it's like I become invisible when a prettier, funnier, more confident girl walks in. Having grown up home schooled, isolated and anxious around people, I've been trying my hardest in recent years to be wittier, Charming, confident, and gorgeous but I remain slow, socially awkward, shy, and averagely imperfect looking. I suspect the problem lies in trying to change all of me at once when I deep down just want to be effortlessly worthy, when I really need to approach guys with practical steps. Does anyone have any tips or tricks or advice?
Might I suggest that you do what comes naturally. if your nervous twittle your hair, fix your glasses, mess with something on the desk... I'd say be yourself but I always hatted that advice because I have no idea how to be myself.
Falsley market yourself wear high heels so you can make your ass look tighter, wear make up but not too much make up we don't want to date a Marlyn Manson so watch Victoria secrets make up tutorials. 2. Wear push up bras if you have small boobs or stuff socks up your bra 3. say cute naive things us men love naive women even if you are faking it 4. if you don't have the right hair length or are insecure about it wear an expensive wig or if you want to attract the guys who are into blondes dye your hair.
First of all you're just as "worthy" as any girl so you need to gain some self confidence. Just relax, be yourself, smile, be friendly and approachable. I love those girls who are just naturally friendly if you speak to them. But most of all believe in yourself. It'll go a long way 😊