I live in Mexico. My girlfriend lives in Europe. We have been together for half a year and haven't even had the privilege to meet in person. I've never held her in my arms, kissed her, cuddled with her, taken her out somewhere for dinner, had a movie night or even tell her that I love her face to face.
Here's the hard, cold truth: you just deal with it. Take advantage of the time you spend texting and video chatting, because it's what'll help keep your love alive, even if it's hard sometimes.
It's all you can do. Remember that you see him in your future, that you WANT that future. In the end, the wait will be all worth it.
Its hard. So fcking hard.. But i think you just have to have faith. It makes it difficult to control your emotions when you dont have that.. Its seriously screws with your mind. But i think if you remind yourself why you love him. All his little corks🙃.. or your perceptions of them at least.. Then you can find a way to deal. Its hard though. No question about that..
You just deal with it. You have to get used to. It is what it is.
Hey there, before i start to tell you my opininon, I just wanna tell you that I will give insight of my relationship a little bit and apparently (after reading/hearing opinions which were given by girls anywhere it could be, i realize that...) this is a pattern that women always do when giving opinion because they want you to know that YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE who has experienced this and to give you comfort.
I have been in a ldr and tomorrow itll be 1,8 months. I visited him once last year. I get how you feel, and even sometimes we or one of us get too comfortable in the distance and in some times, im the one who feel the missing is soooo unbearable. I know you might think that he doesn't miss you as much as you do to him. Believe me, your boyfriend is missing you too. But he is a guy and his mind doesn't work like how ours do. We can think about our boyfriend and the relationship all the time. Because that's our nature.
Just tell him you miss him, but don't make it always seem that you are so sad, because it will make it seem like he isn't making you happy. Try distract yourself with some other stuff you like BUT keep him updated! He loves it eventhough he doesn't say it. Just try to distract yourself with your hobbies and you can try to make something and send it to him.