I respect every woman's opinion. But for those saying they wouldn't touch a man who had kids.. imagine you being a single mom and every guy saying the same things about you... I see some women don't care, some women would and some women wouldn't. Say his ex isn't a crazy bitch and only talks to him when it comes to the kids. They don't fight are argue, she doesn't torment him, she leaves him alone unless it's something he needs to know about the kids.. other than that she goes about her life?
I'll be honest, it depends. Depending on a girl's age, she might not be ready for that type of commitment. It also depends on the guy. If you are 30 and have a couple kids, that fine. However, if you are 21 and have 3 kids, it gives off the impression that you sleep around and that might shove some girls away.
Not at this point in my life. I love kids and want my own one day, but I don't want an instant family. And kids means his ex is very likely still in the picture. I don't want to be roped into any baby mama drama.
no, I wouldn't. If I were older perhaps but I really wouldn't want to be some sort of stepmother. I have a friend who has been with a man for three years and he has a son so I now some women wouldn't ming but it's definitely not helping.