I've never heard the words "You are attractive" or "You're hot" come out of an American girls mouth directed at me, but I travel to all these other places and the girls are crazy about me. In France the girls said I had the cutest accent (when I spoke French) and that I was really attractive, in Germany I had several girls tell me "You look good" and things like that. In Belgium a group of girls tell me I was the best looking American they had seen in real life. In the UK I didn't have as much luck with women, but I still had a few girls display interest in me. Then I come back to the US and all the girls ignore me, I might as well be a ghost because I never hear a word out of them. I dont understand it, beauty standards are extremely similar in Europe and the US. I dont want to date a European woman, I want to date a girl from my country but I literally have no luck here. Occasionally I'll get a weird girl that comes along, or a girl that comes along looking for sex, but looking for a relationship... not so much. 21 years old and I still have not been in a relationship. The girls that were telling me I was good looking in Europe were pretty good looking themselves, but here in the US I just dont get anything. Whats the deal?
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Different = interesting = attractive.
I go to LA and give them a taste of clipped British accent and they love it. I turn from 'another Asian dude' into someone actually worth talking to. When you're interesting to girls, their physical attraction threshold is lowered.
Another thing, American and British girls seem big on the muscles look, but Europeans are far less impressed by them, they prefer slim guys. Does that describe you?